While bleeding after sex while pregnant can be unsettling at best, it doesn't mean that something is necessarily wrong or that you have to put a halt to sexual activity. As scary as it looks, bleeding in expectant moms can be normal. Vaginal bleeding occurs in 15 percent to 25 percent of pregnancies, usually in the first trimester, but blood flow can appear on and off throughout.[1]

But because this symptom is so distressing, it's always a good idea to check with your practitioner to find out what's causing your post-sex blood flow, and to get the green light to continue with intercourse.

What does it mean if you experience bleeding after sex while pregnant?

Light to medium bleeding after sex is usually due to normal changes to the cervix during pregnancy. Vaginal bleeding very early in the first trimester can also be a sign of implantation.[2]

More rarely, heavy bleeding can be a sign of miscarriage or an ectopic pregnancy. The bleeding itself is rarely anything to worry about, but you should check with your practitioner to identify the cause.

What causes bleeding after sex during pregnancy?

There are several things that might be behind bleeding after sex when you're pregnant, including:

Changes to your cervix

During pregnancy, the cervix goes through a process called "remodeling" in preparation for birth. Remodeling causes it to change shape, open up, shed cells and become quite tender.

You probably won't feel it, but your body could be extra sensitive during sex, which can lead to light bleeding.

Implantation

About a week after conception, the fertilized egg attaches to the lining of the uterus. This process, called implantation, can cause a little spotting or light flow.

Ectopic pregnancy

Although it's unlikely, bleeding after sex could be a sign of an ectopic pregnancy, where the fertilized egg attaches somewhere other than the uterus.

Placenta previa

This condition generally happens in the second or third trimester and is when the placenta covers part or all of the cervix. If sex is followed by bright red bleeding, it could point to placenta previa as the cause.

Placental abruption

Placental abruption occurs when there's an early separation of the placenta from the uterus, which can cause heavy bleeding, with or without clots.

If the separation is slight, there's usually little danger to you or your baby. But if it's more severe, you may need to be hospitalized — which is why it's so important to see your doctor.

Early labor

If you're having regular contractions that intensify and become more frequent even when you change positions — as well as back pressure, bleeding and pelvic pressure — well before your due date, these could be signs of preterm labor.

If you suspect labor is starting prematurely, contact your practitioner immediately.

Miscarriage

Sex does not cause miscarriage, but heavy bleeding — when you fill a pad every hour, or have lighter bleeding that lasts for days — sometimes indicates that a pregnancy is at risk of ending before 20 weeks.

If you suspect you are having a miscarriage, call your practitioner immediately. Many women at risk of miscarrying can go on to have healthy pregnancies with guidance from their doctors. 

What to do about bleeding after sex during pregnancy

If you notice spotting or very light flow, don't insert a tampon. Instead, wear a pad. If the bleeding is copious or doesn't stop flowing, or is accompanied by moderate to severe cramping, fever, back and pelvic pressure, or contractions, call your practitioner right away to find out what's causing it. 

Can you prevent bleeding after sex during pregnancy?

While you may be able to prevent some bleeding by avoiding intercourse, that won't affect the underlying cause.

More importantly, unless your doctor tells you that intercourse or orgasm is unsafe, keep it up. Regular sex is one the healthiest ways an expecting couple can reduce stress, stay connected and keep the romance alive while they're waiting for baby to arrive.

When to call the doctor about bleeding after sex during pregnancy

Red or brown spotting or light flow mixed with mucus is normal, especially early on in your pregnancy. But bleeding after sex while pregnant can be alarming, so don't hesitate to check in with your practitioner any time you notice it, if only for reassurance that sexual activity isn't harming your baby.

If the bleeding is heavy, lasts for more than a few days, or is accompanied by cramping, pelvic pressure, back pressure, contractions or fever, check in with your practitioner as soon as possible. Some women experience copious bleeding throughout their pregnancies, after sex and at other times too, but it's a good idea to rule out early labor or other medical issues.

Studies support the benefits of sex during pregnancy, so try not to let a little spotting prevent you and your partner from being intimate.